Sunday, 26 March 2017

Did hijab is mandatory in ISLAM??

HIJAB why for FEMALES..??
HIJAB IS PERSONAL CHOICE..

The hijab is again in the news for all the wrong reasons. Just like the triple talaq, hijab is also a contentious subject that’s open to a plethora of interpretations.The great Egyptian blind exegete (interpreter of scriptures) on Quranic verses,Taha Hussain, in a speech delivered at Al-Azhar, the seat of Sunni Islam in Cairo, said ‘hijab or naqab 
am in Cairo, said ‘hijab or naqab predated Islam and had little to do with religious or Quranic injunctions.’ Linguistically,hijab and naqab belonged to Yiddish and Ladino, precursors to Hebrew and Arabic.The languages fall in the family of saami zubaan or Semitic languages. In classical Semitic languages, hij and naq were the fundamental Semitic roots to words hayaz (archaic Hebrew) and naqin (Aramaic, spoken by the putative Jesus). Both the ancient and now defunct words in Hebrew and Aramaic had the common connotation:‘To protect’. Even in ancient Arabic spoken till fourth century,haeeb,that later became hijab,meant ‘to protect.’ Nowhere did it mean to protect the modesty (of a woman).

Jewish and Christian men and women wore hazaf — Aramaic for a face covering — till the ninth century.was a time when the men and women of all three Semitic faiths, namely, Judaism, Christianity and Islam,were wearing hijab not as a religious symbol or a piece of sacred apparel, but to protect their faces from the sweltering heat and sands of the desert. “Early geographical and survival factors often get subdued and subordinated by the (obscure) religious interpretations of later age,” says Professor Bernard Philip of Princeton University.Semitic faiths originated from the desert region where the blistering sun and sandy storms scorched the skin.The bedouin men and women covered their faces with cloth and still do. Moreover,there’s nothing from the early Islamic period about what the khimar or veil, should cover, whether face, body or hair.The Quran,Sura 24:31,reminds Muslim women of the need to ‘draw (it) over their bosoms.’ One of Prophet Muhammad’s wives is commanded to speak from behind a hijab (modern Arabic for ‘curtain’) as a mark of high distinction (Quran, Sura 33:53).Though Aisha,one of the most eminent of the Prophet’s wives and a scholar of Islam,provided details about the khimars, no record exists as to how they were worn. Rigid interpretation of the veil as a metaphor for obscurantism is recent,thanks to Wahabism and the Salafi movement that obfuscated the free spirit of Islam and misconstrued Quranic teachings. Even Prophet Muhammad never advocated that women must wear a hijab. Bukhari’s Hadith (compilation of Prophet Muhammad’s teachings) mentions a specific teaching with a story attached.

A woman approached Prophet Muhammad and asked whether she should wear a veil after marriage.The Prophet answered that whether married or unmarried, she was not required to hide her face from strangers or male gazers because those determined to gaze at women would continue to gaze, anyway, whether or not one wore a veil. Prophet Muhammad added that the sacredness of an uncovered face is its hijab. Anything forcibly hidden or concealed,attracts unnecessary as well as unhealthy attention. To veil a woman is to undermine her womanhood and weaken her persona. It’s an attempt to commodify and relegate her to being an object.The Quran doesn’t approve of the objectification of women in any of its 6,000-odd verses. In one of the 60,000 verses in Firdausi’s Shahnama in Persian, there’s a verse that makes it clear that not a piece of cloth but the divinity of a woman’s face serves as a hijab.

■ The author has done extensive research on the Quran for his doctorate thesis at Oxford University


'For Muslim women a headscarf is not an accessory; rather, it is a part of their belief'

Thursday, 23 March 2017

FRIENDS..BLESSING..

Good Friends always remain True
TRUE FRIENDS ARE  BLESSINGS...

The book of Sirach says”A gentle word  makes many friends, an agreeable tongue calls forth gracious replies. Let your friends  be many ;but your counselors, one in a thousand! If you gain a friend,  begin with testing him/her and do not put your confidence in him/her too quickly. For ,there is the friend who is such when it suits him/her but he doesn’t remain faithful in the time of your adversity.
While the world today encourages one to have many friends, especially virtual friends,  and to interact with the maximum number of people, the definition of friend itself has changed. Most of our relationships today are superficial or at best. Hence, there is no inclination or time to proceed with caution, slowly, discover each other and once comfortable, share confidences and moments.
Because we have so many options, so many ways to connecting with people, whether over social media or travel, for instance, we tend to count a large number of people as’ friends’ but few of them would fit the bill in the true sense of the word.
Realfriends, therefore, are rare. Even in the purest of relationship there is an element of manipulation and hidden agendas. We  may easily mistake curiosity for concern, emotional bargaining for closeness and intimacy, overbearing comments for wisdom, put downs for frank criticism and unfair criticism metorship.
Mentors are friends.  They may not be life coaches but could often step into those shoes when the situation demands it. People seek our life coaches to learn to become positive again after bad experiences, to reflect and to cope better with loss and separation. When friends provide this kind of support, they are more like mentors than friends.
Friends are usually of our peer group and so they are a lot like us- if we are unwise, they too could be likewise; if we build castles in air, they too may float on clouds; if seek support ,they do,too.
Yet,  friends empathise with us,when we are faced with challenges. They remain loyal, faithful, keep us positive and cheerful,guide and direct us, reciprocate any feelings. They are companions on the journey of life. They walk at our side, besides us and along with us.
Ideal companions respect our privacy and allow us space. In all relationships, we need space to relax, to stay with who we are; companions never obstructs us , they gives constructive support and help.

Friends who are insincere may let us down..or we may just outgrow certain relationships. That is why,more than before , we need to be cautious, we need to go slowly in whom we befriend and who we go to counsel. People in everyday life come and go ,but some remain. They remain true and share and care our lives right up to the end. They will hold us by hand and stay with us till the end, no matter what..    

Tuesday, 21 March 2017

What Ayodhya wants??



Today Supreme Court advises amicable solution in Ayodhya issue:
Supreme Court bats for an out-of-court settlement in the Ram Mandir-Babri Masjid issue,the observation comes in the backdrop of BJP winning the UP's election and appointing a chief minister, Yogi Adityanath,who is a big votary of the construction  of Ram Mandir..
The SC observed  this dispute since around two decades,which is very sensitive and sentimental issue .All parties in country must hold discussion out-of-court.
These are issues ofregon and setiments..and people of India wish to rid of this dispute which is obstacle in progress.... Ayodha also wants its development.. And atmosphere of brotherhood.. Harmony.. And peace ..no violence in name of religions..India's beauty lies in unity in diversity.. No temple or masjid comes between in love ..just peaceful nation.. Jai Hind...Masjid - Wikipedia https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Babri_Masjid

yogi ki satta..

Will this yogi deliver on development??


The Adityanath government appears to be singularly lacking in administrative  talent.
Yogi Adityanath sworn on Sunday,19th March'17,As cm of UP.-while taking oath the man from monastic order inverted the sequence in his name, as it has been ordinarily in use- declared that he  would focus on state's development as well the law and order situation, which he said needed serious attention . given the reputation  that precedes the new CM,it may be some time before he is taken at face value. In the matter of what's ordinarily understood to  be development, the Yogi has no record of any kind.On law and order, he's known as a disrupter in his years as an active politician-booked for rioting and resorting to violent language to raise the communal pitch.But Prime Minister Modi's profile has changed. seeking to overcome his association in public mind with grave communal violence in Gurjat during hid term as CM, he sought to present himself to  the country and the world as a leader who took nation forward in industry,infrastructure and agriculture at faster pace than his predecessors( altough it's too early to assess, but majority believes this).
As such,the PM's tweets of ressurrance after  the Yogi's oath-taking, ate likely to calm nervous if  the full-fledged BJP-government in UP, whose extravagantly impressive mandate is this election far surpasses that of any earlier state government, can get off to a constructive start.It is necessary  to say this, for BJP president Amit Shah had said on his campaign trail that first act of BJP  government would be shut down abattoirs and butcher sho ps.He stressed that pointless resolve to media after  the polls results were in. The CM , whose controversial appointment surprised everyone, will be well adivised to think better ways to get started.UP is state of 220 millon people,and if it were a country it would be the world's fifth most populous.
It is wretchedly poor,infrastructure ,agriculture and employment are the obvious areas to focus on.To begin with,the newly made government could think to complete the many infrastructure projects his predecessor Akhilesh sarkar  had started. The Yogi's satta appears to be singurarly lacking administrative talent. Many of ministers have chosen for their specialisation in Hindutva propaganda or  to tick caste boxes to acknoweldge election -time support.As such, a strong push from New Delhi will be needed if development  is privileged over communal projects such as the Ram Mandir..

Thursday, 16 March 2017

DESIRES...

DESIRES CAN STEALS PEACE OF MIND

When we are prey of turmoil, we get caught in a vicious loop-chain of innumerable  desires..
there is no end ..in order to fulfill desires..we get trapped in never -ending process..
this makes us restless..sometimes unfulfilled desires -is open invitation to depression..
To avoid all these .just give  the best of life to ourselves ..and not expect a lot  from others..
Don't depend too much on anyone. for borrowed happiness.....

The voter's new religion..

The  historic mandate in UP is a watershed moment in India's electoral history. The poisionous  cocktail of caste and communal political was swept by Modi' tsunami, with the bjp' landslide victory stunning political pundits and media alike.Coming within months of revolutionary decision to ban high value notes, which many sceptics prophesied would lead to an electoral debacle for bjp, stupendous win showed that the people are with Modi and war against black money and corruption.Demonetisation recieved thumbs-up, even though it was disruptive in sense that it caused many temporary inconvenieces.Leaders of Bjp feels that UPiets are with bjp but the real reason is that -upiets are giving full support to a step for  making corruption-free India, which every Indian dreams of this..
The verdict of Uttarkhand,and more particularly up is a clear negation of the vote bank politics of the bjp's opponents, and a complete endorsement of the developmental agenda of bjp..by shunting out non- performative governments, the voters sent a clear message- perform or perish..but  truth is the voters choosen better option not going with Modi's wave..
This is not Modi's charisma bring out victory in other states like Punjab, there voters revolt against present governments..choosing new for changes.Likewise, in Goa and Manipur  people  rejected bjp..and congress was largest party in both states, but independent candidates change the game of electoral policies..The democracy is runs by citizens and by people..but now we find new element-that is centre 's power is dominating people's wishes..so why expenditure in election processes??
There will be law -those are rejected by people in elections should not hold any ministry..that will be true justice and democracy..
Now, in modern era, voters are being more aware and breaking chains of casteism, and communalism ..welcoming new prospects of developmental processes..and changing for better ..
CHANGE is need for Growth and Development ..the reality is voters now adopting new religion-"Development of India"..

Saturday, 11 March 2017

NAAM hi KAFI HAI..NAMO!!

BJP's massive victory is establishing trend get votes by only mention the name..this win is saying it is endorsement of Prime Minister 's name and policies..also stopping criticism of the demonetisation decision..Indians are welcoming and supporting this..
Big applause to duo- Modi and shah's ideology for bringing the party to power in UP  and Uttarkhand with unprecedented three-fourths majority..this victory very impressive which lasts for decades..
People  chant across states was"modi..modi..modi.."they make him a avatar of Lord..
This expression ..are sings of backwardness in modern society??
The important part is in all five states wants a change ..people are being aware and smart ..they rejected past government ..and welcoming new parties to give services to citizens ..

Friday, 10 March 2017

Predictions..for UP....EXIT POLLS..

All surveys, exit polls are giving this message-'LOTUS will blooms in UP..but SP

+CONGRESS  is hopeful of their victory while BSP  is ready to play with winning colors..
But what is mood of up..?? suspense will be disclosed  on 11 th march..which party is deserving , it will decide tomorrow..Did wave of Modi succeed again or two youths's vision win or dalit leadership??
After exit polls, Indians are analysing what are winning factors is this elections..development in past government..blind following..polarisation of votes..demonization  effects..or spilt of votes..??
BJP 's supports are  celebrating victory before declaration of results while others are condemning it exit polls and giving example of Bihar results..where all exit polls went wrong..
Everyone is waiting..for results..tomorrow everyone will be glued  to news sources..Along with other states -Punjab,  Manipur ,Uttarakhand and Goa.In Punjab bjp+sad neck-and -neck fight between aap and congress according to survey..in uttarakhand and goa Bjp have lead..while there  is close battle among AAP, Congress and Bjp  Manipur and Goa..
All is dependent on citizens's selection..this shows where people going..towards agendas which are set up for development or polarisation..this decision brings strong message to whole world because India is that country where all religions are respected and here all Indians are living with harmony..
JAI HIND!!

Thursday, 9 March 2017

ATTRIBUTES OF A LEADER..

HOLISTIC LEADERSHIP..

What are attributes of good le ader?How can he inspire others to become better human beings and collectively build a better leadership?
Bhagwad Gita says: "whichever action a great man performs, common people follows..whatever standards he set by acts.. all world perceives."..The people  need a leader who has practical behavior..eg. he cannot ask people to stop smoking,if he smokes himself.  We need those  who are competent in every aspect to show the way; to run educational institutions and spiritual organisations..The  leadership must have integrity, faith and spirituality..economic development should be accompanied by compassion and concern for entire society..
If the leader is operating through fear so there no experimentation and innovation..The leader should have ability to be mindful, co-operative and eager to utilize full potential for developmental programs and devoted to his duties responsibilities..
A honest leader work with impartial attitude towards everyone..
Question arises,,where is constructive leadership in the present..??
Reality is GANDHI jii killed but his views of nation-building are alive and saddest thing..is that common man is not encouraging this type of leadership..TODAY!! 

Wednesday, 8 March 2017

Beauty of life..


LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL...
has become so fast-paced that we miss to take note of small pleasures of life and to count our blessings..How many times have we stopped by to admire the beauty  of nature around us, the sun and moon, blooming flowers, humming bees, the entire process of seed turning into  a plant..
Some of us may end up realising  it all, but a bit late, as I have now..We then begin to turn to spirituality..
Why not start it all during childhood..?? Why children be deprived of our ancient wisdom  related to the meaning and relevance of life..??
Why don't we modify our education system and lifestyle to meet  the need of the present..??  So everyone start to love blessings of life..
Take pause..and see all around us..smiling..slow down, observe,wonder, live and love life..   

woman's day

A woman is beautiful creation by GOD..to be respected, praised  and be compassionate..towards her..
She is strong pillar in every family..without her a family is incomplete because her presence valuable  no one replace her..she is greatest blessing on earth..
But, from centuries women are treated as a object of pleasure for a man..that why birth of girl child is not welcomed ..her birth is treated as big burden on family..why this so following as a tradition ??
When a women are worshiped as Goddess  same time she is suffering atrocities in every phases of her lives..
 A daughter,sister , wife and mother is giver of support ..mental and physical to manfolks  in every step of life..she deserves all respect..but they are suppressed by male counterparts to dominate her..
What are reasons behind this behavior...?? main cause is that women forget to speak due to her rearing since their birth..girls should be softspoken, polite never speak loudly and suffering  and tolerance are biggest strengths of a woman...is told to girls..do not aggressive because is out of manners..so majority follows this man made law..implemented on every girl..that is start of suppression of a girl..
 In this suppressing atomsphere ..women made respectful place in here..
SALUTE TO ALL WOMEN!!!

Tuesday, 7 March 2017

defame politics

mrs. mulyam singh came before media before last phase of up elections ...what r causes for this?
did this is strategy of bjp????????????????to defame akhilesh sarkar...

Up elections..last day of campaigning..

The  Trinity.. Sp,Bjp and Bsp..conclude their efforts to woo voters..see what is fruit of citizens of up's selection..who will be crowned..just now only 40 of 403seats are left..we find do-or-die situation.. For Bjp,Sp -congress and Bsp ..

In Varanasi, PM Modi spent three days for campaigning for Bjp candidates. Chief minister Akhilesh Yadav addressed seven rallies on the last day of his campaign for his party, Rahul Gandhi also campaigning along with Sp..Mayawati - leader of Bsp  concluded her 32-days campaign and 50 public meetings across the state.
See what is feedback of these on last  pha
se of polling ..tomorrow...
And, what is results..who wins this election..?? Did demonetisation affect this elections??
In 2014 , lok sabha election bring out victory for Bjp.. and won 42% seats of UP ..this boost for bjp..but no one know about mood of citizens of up..
Hope for best for UP..

my first blog

                                                                        LIFE
Life is made by never ending chain of two types of experiences- Happiness and Sorrows..
Nobody do not know mystery of Almighty's plans made for us..Everyone have to face these two phases in one life..
Those have fighting spirit to accept both phases as challenge..they succeed..